Wednesday, January 7, 2026

Cloth Dolls and Dress the Fox


At the sign of the Dancing Fox is an event in the Shire of Nordenhalle, Kingston NY in early February. 

There is food, dancing and a favorite of mine - Dress the fox!

Dress the fox is a family style activity where anyone who wishes may use materials to dress a fox during the time of the event. To keep the fox is a cost to support the activity otherwise it is a donation if able. While it used to be easier to provide regular fox plush for dressing and purchase, that isn't the case anymore. So I suggest that if you are going that you bring your own fox, and supply funds or materials as you are able to support. Maybe even donate homemade foxes for purchase in future years! 

Benefits of bringing your own fox:
  • Not adding to the plush collection, but still being able to use what you make.
  • Grow a single loved toy's wardrobe over years.
  • You can prepare with patterns or your own materials if you wish.

And if you do not have a similar event near you, these resources may still be helpful for a child in your life or one at heart.

Benefits of having a cloth doll
  • A cloth doll may be more durable than American Girl doll style dolls. 
  • A standard doll sized cloth doll can either share closets and accessories with a standard doll OR be an alternative to the more expensive dolls while also being a keepsake. 
  • Pixiefaire.com is a good resource for multiple doll sizes. Generally 18in(Standard) and 14 inch(Wellie Wishers) American girl dolls seem most commonly designed for.
  • A cloth doll that fits those sizes is easier to build or buy a wardrobe and may get more play. 
Patterns for Fox dolls:



Sunday, November 2, 2025

Dawn Under

 

Life is happening. So a simple post for October (yes it is now November). Dawn Under is about Vampires finding a grave before dawn. The game is, at its core, a memory game, but it has some quirks.

  1. It gets hard as the game progresses, not easier (fewer open graves)
  2. You can sabotage spaces (garlic)
  3. At any time there are only about to capitalize on 2 times of spaces (you can only place vampires from either open end of your row)
This game is accessible to kids and they may even have a bit of an advantage. If that is not the case, you can play with only the kids get garlic or without garlic at all.

Bonus, the rules provide a change for a shorter or easier game.


Below is a list of resources from other sources:  

Sunday, September 14, 2025

SCA Beyond This Blog

On this blog I’m sharing my ideas but there are also resources within the structure of the SCA. This post will focus on the East Kingdom as that is my kingdom.


Chancellor Minor of East Kingdom

  • “In modern terms, the Chancellor Minor is best described as the Youth and Family Activities and Engagement Officer.”

  • FAQ especially the “What about my infant/child/teenager?” section with guides for different life phases.

  • Tyger Camp

Also looking into resources from your local group, whether on a website or from talking to people.


Kingdoms beyond the East where I can find a webpage for youth: overall listing of kingdom sites

Tip: go to Officers to look for Youth Activities contacts.


Saturday, September 13, 2025

Making a Kid Saree

 (start of a series)


Historically kids did not wear saree but the flexibility has potential for growing kids and repurposing material. I don't think it would be good for a rough and tumble kind of kid so evaluate if this idea suits your kid.  Also, I will note that traditionally being able to wear a saree may be a rite of passage, so choose if you feel good with this idea (this blog is a hobby so I don’t have the time to do strong research on cultural appropriation and disrespect)

Creating a basic kid size saree

Measurements

An adult saree seems to generally be about 45 inches, which is likely to be too big for a kid. While there is something called a half saree, my idea is to trim down standard fabric to a size that is more suitable for a kid. I haven’t been able to experiment with length but if the fabric is cut in half lengthwise and sewn end to end yardage to buy is less. If that seems too short, then the cut off can be used for a number of other things such as matching toy garb, a top to wear with the saree or facing for another garment. Standard saree are about 6 yards in length, so with the idea that a kid is one half scale in comparison to an adult I would start with a 3 yard saree and experiment with draping before decoration.

Material

Batik dyed fabric or similar printed fabric work in order to skip the decoration step. While a quick internet search says that Batik originated in Indonesia and thus maybe not accurate, it would make a pretty attempt at the SCA period.


While solid quilters cotton is easy to find at a craft store, though it might turn out bulky (I have yet to experiment) and cotton gauze works well because it is a looser weave than the quilters cotton. 


Fabric source ideas:

  •  Thrifted worn bedsheets?


Construction

Trim fabric down to the chosen width (22, 30, other), piece together if needed, hem the cut edge with other edge being the selvedge to reduce bulk (to further limit bulk use the hemmed edge as the bottom hem.

Determine the Pallu (the pretty end) by laying the fabric out flat with the hem towards you, the end to the far right is the Pallu, this is where the most decoration should be done.


Some other resources

 

Before decorating try to drape to make sure it is not too long for the child. 


Next post in this series will be decorating ideas. [insert link]


Saturday, July 19, 2025

Box age limits are more like … guidelines?


 Brief research indicates that box age is influenced by more than just the skills needed to enjoy the game. Even if it was, it would be based on generalizations. Everyone differs from generalization in some way.


There are a series of factors to keep in mind when figuring out if your young players can enjoy a specific game. 


Firstly, the teaching or leading player should have played the game before trying to fudge the box age. This is so the game can be evaluated in relation to the young player. 


Know the players involved, both young player(s) [kid] and those expected to play without ignoring the box age [adult]. Adults need to have patience enough to meet the kid where they are and the leading player should know the kid’s:

  • Strengths 

  • Weaknesses

  • Interests - game themes can help with enjoyment and modify attention span (engaging themes can boost engagement)

  • Attention Span - how long do they tend to focus vs length of game

Try to balance the needs of all your players so that everyone has fun - this balance can look different for every play group.


Common skills used in gaming (not necessarily all inclusive)  

  • Reading

  • Math, simple and complex

  • Abstract thinking

  • Turn complexity

  • Waiting for turn

  • color/pattern matching

  • Dexterity

Also keep in mind game mechanics (definitely not all inclusive)

  • Quick thinking

  • Bidding and Betting 

  • Hidden details

  • Others may be listed on BoardGameGeek.com listings for games


Evaluating a young player for compatibility for a specific game:

  • If the player skills are comparable to the box age then the game is probably worth trying with the right play group.

  • If one or more of the player skills is below expected for the box age and experience says that the player skills are still below game play skill, then do you want to use the game to practice a skill?

    • If yes, be thoughtful if choosing more than one skill to practice.

    • If not, then picking a different game may be advisable.

Note: this evaluation can apply to adults, though they generally can evaluate themselves.


Another way for some games is to ignore certain elements of game play to simplify until the player can handle all parts of game play. A good example is simplifying earning of points, like ignoring farmers in Carcassonne. 


One thing I’ve observed is that generally pre-kindergarten is harder to find kid accessible and adult engaging games. But early childhood games are important to build both life skills and the foundation for a love of gaming. I hope to do a post on those games for modifications for older players to improve engagement (both for siblings and parents)


Sunday, June 1, 2025

NERFam Blogger Introduction

I should have started with this post but I needed to get the momentum started.

Hello, my name is Rowan and I am a proud nerd raised by nerds. I was raised around board gaming and the Society for Creative Anachronism and these communities expanded my life in ways school did not. My goal is to support family involvement and participation in these communities.


My Limitations

  • I am not a parent, nor do I plan to be

  • I am a board gamer, so beyond that I will try to link to other blogs that cover things like Role-Playing Games and LARPS.

  • My thoughts are not guaranteed to be well researched. I will aim to be thoughtful.

  • I will try to be inclusive, but when I miss the mark please be patient with me, I’m open to polite constructive criticism with explanation or informal evidence 

Saturday, May 31, 2025

Does Anime help keep teens in Garb?


As a second generation SCAdian I've observed a few friends and their friends choose Japanese style Garb. While I didn't ask them why at the time, my theory is anime. From hearing stories from older SCAdians it wouldn't be the first time that a love of media led to a love of history and culture. Additionally, this may be a way to differentiate themselves from their parents as they grow into themselves. Maybe this develops into a whole Persona or maybe it's a phase but either way it encourages participation that works for them. 


This interest can also be a good introduction to making their own garb. My minimal research reveals loose garments with minimal tailoring and made of nearly all rectangles, so accessible to new sewists. 


Here are some links to jump start research:

  • Wodefordhall : The individual articles have cited resources for further research.
  • Sengokudaimyo: not only fashion but culture as well
  • sbooth.net: inspiration more than source
  • daigaku-ryou: outdated event listing but reading the class descriptions may lead you down some rabbit holes 
  • jeongyo-teahouse.net: database of sorts for sources covering most of Asia it appears

Cloth Dolls and Dress the Fox

At the sign of the Dancing Fox is an event in the Shire of Nordenhalle , Kingston NY in early February.  There is food, dancing and a favori...